Nick Talarico, COO, Do it Best

Key Takeaway: A frustrating 19-hour drive home turned into a leadership lesson when someone I respected told me, “Enjoy the ride.” That simple redirect shifted my mindset, helped me stop playing victim, and reminded me that great leadership is often just a few honest words at the right moment.

Ever notice how the best advice always seems to come when you least want to hear it?

COVID. My son had symptoms at home. I was in Denver. I had to drive home instead of flying. 19 long hours. You have got to be kidding me. I was furious.

I spent the first leg of the trip irritated. And let me tell you… Nebraska is a big state.

I made a couple of calls to check in. But mostly just complaining.

About the drive. Timing. Dealing with circumstances I couldn’t control.

Right before stopping for the night east of Omaha, I called one of my regional sales managers. Sharp guy. Someone I’ve always respected. Still is.

Right before we hung up, he said, “When’s the last time you were on a long road trip just by yourself?” I couldn’t remember. He said, “Enjoy the ride.”

That really frustrated me. I didn’t want to enjoy the ride. I wanted to play victim.

But the next morning, I got back on the road with a clearer head.

Ten hours left. Something had shifted.

I started calling people I’d been meaning to reach for months but never had the time.

I listened to podcasts. Blared some music. The time flew. I was actually enjoying it.

One simple comment from someone who cared enough to redirect me instead of just listening to me complain.

Sometimes the best leadership isn’t a big speech or a bold decision.

It’s a few words at the right moment.